Naomi has to work super hard just to keep up with the kids her age. I also think her hard work goes unnoticed by her coaches. All the coaches seem to care about is winning. They don't rotate positions much. She has been in the outfield the past two years. She still throws a little short but can throw to any position from 2nd base. I wish they would give her a chance at that or short stop. She got to play third, for about ten minutes at practice the other night, and when she needed to throw to first, they got on her for throwing it to the pitcher for the pitcher to throw it to first. Naomi knew it was the fastest, most accurate way to go. She can't throw all the way to first from third. I don't think any of them really can. They got on her for it and put her back in left field. Why would a coach put someone with a short arm on third? It's just frustrating. I've kept my mouth shut for 2 past seasons because I don't want to be one of "those parents." But it's hard when your child is bored in the outfield because the coach's kids, and the assistant coach's kids get the good positions, every time. This is pixie league. I think they should play to win, but learning should be the priority...esp in the regular season.
Our coach's kid thinks he knows everything and tells the other players what to do, for the most part all the kids just blow him off. The funny thing is that he's wrong more often than not and always has excuses for his errors. No one gets on any of the kids for fielding errors but he has an excuse at the ready, every single time. The last time he yelled at James because James wasn't backing him up at first when he missed an easy throw. His mom yelled "if you would have caught the ball thrown directly to you, you wouldn't need to be backed up!)
We have great parents. Everyone understands they're just kids and they're feeling their way through and learning to be good team mates. So far it's been a really great experience.