Hello dear friends! I love ALL of you Seasonistas and "I'm not the only one" (Sorry but John Lennon's "Imagine" springs to mind at the moment).
This technologically driven age is a hard time to be civil, it seems. What we say in print is much colder sounding than a personal conversation where we look each other in the eye, pick up on physical and vocal cues and then hug it out when we're through.
Please, can we try extra hard to treat our brothers and sisters here in this particularly special place with kindness and expect to receive the same treatment in return.
PS: Not that we need any explanations of anything from our wonderful Host, (We don't) I have occasion to know that some comments this season have gone to email but not to You Tube. Just a data point.
Love,
alan
Amen, brother.
Might I gently offer something also to be considered...
I have no idea if there's any reality to back this up, but if the Season results are NOT announced immediately at the supposed or imagined time and/or the Host has not made cute little comments either in the thread or on YT, in near-realtime as videos are submitted...
then just MAYBE, the intention of the host (at that time) is to allow us, as adults, to do our best to follow the theme, and said host actually intends to
wait until ALL the videos are in, then watch them back-to-back, continuously/consecutively, making comments at that time.
When toe-tapping and waiting, growing frustrated or impatient, maybe those expectations of some participants are completely mis-aligned with the reality of the life of that host outside of UU, AND the intentions or PLAN that the Host had from the start. Such intentions do not preclude being a good host by ANY means, but such expectations may in fact be misplaced. I could be wrong, and I am just offering some thoughts to consider going forwards.
I would also offer that if the sole motivation for participating in the Seasons is to get comments in real-time (like during a Golf match) OR to be able to read the hosts judging results precisely at 11:59 PM Hawaii Time on Sunday at the Season's end, maybe those expectations need to be adjusted to match the reality of what the host can reasonably offer.
As has been said before, this is a labor of love for all involved, and if one feels that the Seasons are anything otherwise, than maybe that person needs to re-evaluate (the level of) their participation.
I personally don't care for the drama and negativity, and come here to learn, to become a better player, to be entertained by my peers (as BEV says my 'peeps'), for the camaraderie and MOST importantly to have FUN.
Without FUN, it's all dead to me. If I want to get upset or frustrated, I can always just hit myself really hard on the knee with a hammer a few times. LOL.
Thankfully my exposure to the Seasons has ALWAYS been about FUN, and that has always been my INTENT, no matter what.
Having said all of the above, none of this is directed at anyone specifically, so please do not consider this an accusation, as it is not. I am just trying to suggest another perspective.
I love and appreciate you all, for you ALL have all contributed to my life in immeasurable ways, even when I was only a spectator for so long. I find joy in simply watching your inspiring videos.
Freeda,
thank you for hosting. I had fun this season, and am glad to come back and loved the theme this week.
To my fellow bruddha and sista Seasonista's:
May you always find joy, and further may you ALWAYS be able to see the joy that is right in front of you, no matter what chaos may be present and foremost in your life otherwise.
Shaka :shaka:,
Booli