You are not alone - it seems pretty common around here. I played guitar for over twenty years before picking up the uke and I never became more than a pretty mediocre guitarist. After three years with the uke I'm only mediocre - but I'm a higher grade of mediocre on the ukulele than I am on the guitar and doubtless a large part of that is because I almost never go a day without playing for a little while on the ukulele.
John
This is so true, and very similar to my own experience. I'll never be as good as Bucky Pizzarelli, Eddie Van Halen, Andy Summers or Ben Woods on guitar [nevermind Django or Les Paul] (I'm just not motivated to practice enough)...but there's an actual chance that I might be able to impress my friends and family with my music that I have written on ukulele, even if it is only due to it being so UNCOMMON to play one 'round these parts.
I play every day now, sometimes for
more than an hour. If I dont play, it's like I dont eat.
I'm awestruck and inspired by players like Jake, James Hill, Kalei Gamiao, John King, Daniel Ho (and others). When I hear what they have done, it makes me want to play, and makes me want to write
new music.
My songwriting stagnated on guitar for a few years (I do it for myself), but used the computer a lot, taking the music in my head and putting it together with no instrument in my hand, and over time that got old.
HOWEVER:
In 9 months I have purchased 6 ukuleles.
I have realized all of the benefits of stress reduction, and peaceful feelings that all of you have mentioned, but adding to that:
I started writing music again, ON an instrument, and to me GOOD music (and not trippy I,iV, V electro-dunce ear-poison like I did with the computer).
Writing THIS music with the ukulele makes me
happy. The sound of a minor chord ringing out, with both dulcet and bell-like tones at the same time, is
almost it's own reward for me.
When friends and family ask me, with a smirk, talking out the side of their mouth, 'So
HOW MANY ukuleles do you have now?' I used to tell them the truth, and they would react
horrified, like completely incredulous as to why.
I would then
INFORM them of the other dozen or so ukes that I'd like to
add to my collection over time. Their reactions as expected are further
HORROR.
I let them know about the songwriting (which they all know I have been doing my entire adult life), and ask if a carpenter has only a
single hammer? DUH?
At that point I attempt to cure their ignorance, but sometimes folks just don't care to learn.
Then I ask them how many pairs of fancy shoes they have or fancy watches, their faces turn pale, they stammer, and then the conversation ends...
I'm not
into sports, cars, or gambling like so many others I know. I gave up going out to bars and clubs a long time ago, and I'm better for it.
So why not do something
CREATIVE instead of sitting brain-dead on the couch in front of the tv for 4 hrs every night? (No offense intended & more power to you if that's what makes
YOU happy)
For me the ukulele is both a tool for songwriting, and also a form of
therapy and meditation.
So now I refuse to answer these justification questions like before, and instead simply tell them that the collection is
growing, and contains not nearly enough ukuleles (all the different shapes and sizes
), and
will likely not stop growing until they bury me.
I've said previously in another thread, a few weeks ago, that there's simply no way I would be able to afford to buy the variety and quality of instruments if these were guitars, as I have with the ukuleles.
I have spent maybe around $1,100 on ALL of them, including self-installed pickups, cases, strings books, etc.
I know folks that spend more than that on Superbowl tickets or even a PAIR OF SHOES!!!.
I don't do any of that, so they can try to fault me, and I am only too happy to vertically render a certain finger (even if only in my mind). HA HA.
In fact I just purchased and am eagerly waiting for the new James Hill 'Jazz Ukulele' CD & book to arrive in the mail. OMG - I spent $24 on
ANOTHER ukulele item ($16+$8 shipping from Empire Music). Ridicule and horror? Here's that 'finger' - ha ha.
I don't have a wife (yet), but I can see where one might object if it cuts into paying for a certain level of 'lifestyle', yet I'd hope when I find a wife, and one who is a 'keeper', that she understands without conflict, that my 'lifestyle' includes some flavor of UAS
at all times. Consider this my 'Superbowl/tailgating/poker-night'-fund.
Having said all that, the topic of justifying one's interests is deeply personal, and please consider that I judge no one else for their choices, and only wish that they do what makes them happy, as long as nobody gets hurt in the process.
May you have as many ukes as you want, and let nobody stop you if it makes you happy!
-Booli