I was at a gathering last Sunday, and noticed something a little odd. The host is Chinese, and was very gracious and welcoming. Everyone there spoke English, and yet the host at one point spoke to her adult daughter in Chinese, in front of all the other people.
I couldn't help but feel that her motive was to keep from being understood by everyone else, and that perhaps she was talking about one or more of us to her daughter. Why else would she have switched languages?
She seems to be a lovely lady, and it struck me a little strange. How do you feel about bilingual people using another language in front of people who don't understand it?
I was in the break room at work last week fixing coffee and oatmeal. There were a couple of men from India there (I would guess my building is about 75% Indian - lots of tech contractors from India work with us). I was enjoying the sound of their conversation - whichever language they were speaking just had that beautiful, musical quality to it. As I stood there working on the coffee I started realizing that about every 4th phrase or so would be in English - and it was flowing back and forth between the languages without stop or pause or anything. It was amazing. I don't think my mind could process the transitions between languages so effortlessly. I was in awe of them.