As a kid I had a great boy’s soprano voice. Then when my voice broke in my teens I thought I’d lost it for good - I was just about able to sing in tune, but the tone was horrible.
I was the same with the boy's soprano voice, as well a glorious year when I was 12 or 13 and could naturally and effortlessly sing from baritone to soprano...but while my tone stayed okay after my voice changed, I couldn't get in tune! Completely lost it, and like you, I figured it was gone for good...but it's not! I have a long way to go, but that's what I'm working on now -- getting in tune.
It's already better today than it was yesterday! I won't say that perfection is on the horizon, or even on the to-do list, but the idea that it can't be better -- not at all the case. Practice makes
better, let's say, and better is better.
I'm finding that to do it that I need to gear down my ukulele playing to sing better, though. My strumming finesse had gotten pretty good, but I can't do it all and sing at the same time just yet, so moving to a couple of downstrums per bar is making the singing easier.
So I've got two parallel tracks of practice -- one where I emphasize playing as well as I possibly can and sing whatever I can do to keep up, and the other where I focus on singing, and play well enough to keep up and not much more. I don't think it will be too very long before I can start merging them, but steps are the key. Taking steps.
Taking part in the Seasons weekly challenge made me start singing again - and on a regular basis.
You know I love the Seasons as a spectator, but having spent decades in video production from a variety of angles, I don't associate it with fun anymore.
In fact, I very specifically turned to ukulele to get all devices -- computers, phones, cameras, microphones -- completely out of my life for at least a little while every day. I can't do both, and I'd rather do the ukulele.
But I do think there's more to be said for singing poorly than not at all, so I'm continuing to move in that direction, and it's already better after one day!
Edit: I meant to add to my overall list something I'm definitely doing, which is to
MEMORIZE a few songs this year. Not a ton, but if I can do maybe one a month, that'd be plenty to start! So when I'm focusing on playing, I'm also focusing on
memorizing the playing, and then working on the words both during my practice, and throughout the day.
Especially with some of these songs that I've been singing ALONG with for 50, 60 years or more, it turns out that I don't know every single word on my own as well as I do when I'm following fractionally behind John and Paul.