In my experience, there is the classical ukulele approach, and then there is the whatever works approach, neither of which has worked for me. There is however a lot of ground between the two, and I fall into that middle ground, at least as far as my approach. I will say, that when it comes to chording, I stay pretty traditional. Early on though, when I was always looking for an easy out, I tried thumbing the E, because the E was hard, and it just wouldn't work. I mean, I could play the E just fine by wrapping the thumb, but it just never became natural and I could never go anywhere else from there. I finally just learned to play an E. I'm betting that playing the D by wrapping the thumb around would be just as awkward. Everybody has to play a D. No one gets to play the ukulele well, who can't play a D or can't play an E. You are no different than anyone else, so if I can play one, you can too. Those are the basic chords, and basics are basics. As you progress, you are going to run into chords much more difficult to play, so get used to it.