Currently, I know my fam in the U.S., but back in the philippines, I learned more about my lineage by going to the cemetary w/ my parents and other elder relatives. Our town was pretty small, so pretty crazy seeing most of your ancestors pretty much in one spot... and seeing a family crest... woah. GNARLY!!
you can buy or download family tree software on the web. But tracing people down is gonna take some research and time depending on how accessible everyone is to chat w/ you, yknow?