Heh, heh. I don't think there is much chance that we're all going to run off and abandon anybody here. The contests forum will still be the Contests forum. Those of us who enjoy helping newbies are still going to check in on the Beginners forum frequently. I don't see myself abandoning Uke Talk or Ukulele Tips or...well...any of the other stuff here that I have always frequented (some may be wishing I would
).
For me and, I think, most of the other "VIP" supporters it's not about buying a title - or titles at all. So far the general concensus in our "secret handshake forum" seems to be that the coolest two benefits are the larger PM box and the ability to give ourselves silly titles in place of the standard "Senior Member," and I think those are pretty legit perks for people who are able and willing to support the site financially. About the only thing y'all have missed so far is a couple of nuts strippin' down and runnin' round nekkid - or at least, they claim to have, I shut my eyes.
In short, I don't think that anything that is here is going away, or likely to be less interesting. Is it legitimate to let those who help pay for things have a few perks, I think so, though the perks aren't why I ponied up.
I've run web sites (including some quite popular ones) and from that I can tell you three things discovered from experience:
1) Almost nobody uses "tip jars." It just doesn't happen. Even those who might be inclined to (and there seem to be
darned few who are) they forget, etc). I once used a tip jar on a very popular forum. There were probably 500 active members and many of them were getting referals from their participation there that they were making money from. I got an email from the guy running the web site thanking me - I was the first one to use the tip jar in over a year.
2) Almost nobody remembers or bothers to use the banner ads when they're shopping. Even my personal friends would usually forget to click through from my site when they went shopping online at retailers they knew I was affiliated with.
3) Running a forum is a royal pain with almost no reward for those running it - you may notice that you don't see Rayan and the guys participating here a lot - there's good reason for that. When the forum owners try to "hang out" and cut loose with the gang they get inundated with requests, end up hurting people's feelings, etc. When a forum has a few thousand members you can't hardly crack a joke without hurting somebody's feelings. Heck, if you participate in one thread and not another, somebody gets their little feelings hurt over that! Pretty soon you burn out and just don't want to go there anymore. The guys that hacked my forum several years ago did me a huge favor - I had backups and could have restored it in about thirty minutes but I decided, "why bother?"
So, for those who are uncomfortable with the idea of paid supporters (whether you call them VIP, benefactor, or late for dinner) why not consider this - the alternative might one day be Rayan et. al. getting completely burned out and saying, "why bother?"
John