Very good and very well written Scott, my little problem is my fiddle playing companions don't like the key of F. So it will be D or G and perhaps C maybe. The fiddle player is the Boss and I am nuthin'. I guess that makes him "Boss of nuthin' HaHa!!"
So I think players that get stuck in certain keys do so because they're confident they can get to the right chords and notes.
So we already looked at G
G A B C D E F# G (the key with one sharp, F#)
So the Key of D adds one more sharp (C#)
So in D we have
D E F# G A B C# D
the chords:
D Em F#m G A Bm C#mb5 D
So the thing to remember is that in any key there are certain chords that are more foundational than the others
In any key you can think of the notes as numbers:
Let's use D
D E F# G A B C# D
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 1
So the foundational chords
The most foundational is the key chord or the '1' chord.
In this case D
the next two chords that are very foundational are going to be 4 and 5 (G and A)
with these three chords many many songs are now in your reach regardless of key
The next foundation chord you find is the 6 chord (Bm in our D example)
With these four chords now the majority of contemporary songs are at your finger tips.
Next in my opinion is the 2 chord (Em in this example)
Now we're getting into the cool chords that make you sound like you really got it together category.
When you learn to ID these chords in the most popular keys (C, G, D, A, F, Bb, Eb) you're going to be able to play backup to most anyone regardless of their instrument.
So to sum up. Really get good at identifying the important chords in any key. the 1, 4, 5, and 6minor
Pianists and horn players like F, Bb, Eb and Ab.
Guitarists like G, D, A, and E
Singers can be all over the map. Just depends how the melody fits their voice.