There is another option to consider, in addition to plucking in unison, and strumming. You can do something that is in-between, by plucking the notes in a rolling fashion. If you pluck a chord with the index finger, followed quickly by the middle finger, and ring finger... you get another variable that can be applied when desired for expression. For four note chords start with the thumb. If you change-up your technique throughout the song, you will have more subtle tones of expression to choose from.
–Lori