You could have said, “Now that I have you on the line, can I have yourI actually felt your presence today because i bought some dried cilantro today and I know that you wouldn't be on board with that.
As for my aged father, I saw that he had called today. I called him back and he had just been trying to re-program his phone with its automated numbers. He had my correct number although my brother had told him he needs to update my number. It was very sad because I called my father and had nothing to say to him. I fell back on my vocational scripts and said "now that I have you on the line is there anything I can do for you?" I think I lost quite a few points in how I see myself as a human.
10-inch cast-iron skillet?” Just joking there, but as an orphan I can tell you this. No matter how much you do for an aging parent, in the end it will never be enough. You will always feel guilty, and think of little things you could have done. I still have a lurking suspicion that I’m responsible for my mom’s growing old and dying.