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  1. #11
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    Jul 2015
    Catskill Mountains, NY


    It's seems that many of the great players started when they were just 5.
    Too many ukes, but I can't stop buying!

  2. #12


    a new toy/source of stimulation never hurts. they make small cheap plastic ones for kids (I've even seen mini pos toy ones at the local dollar store). in terms of actual playing the instrument though, let her interest guide you

  3. #13
    Join Date
    May 2017
    Confluence of the Mississippi and Rum Rivers


    5 months might be a little young. Certainly by 2 a plastic uke would do. Son started Suzuki violin at age 4, his teacher was great at instilling proper care and attention to the instrument, he also had mom and dad to watch and how they treated mom's instruments. He did snap a bow in his younger years by putting the point on the floor and then leaning too heavy on it like a cane or walking stick. Lesson learned. His early lessons in music and his interest has led him to continue with high school orchestra and playing several other instruments. We'll see what he takes forward into adulthood. In my observations kids love rhythm, sound, music and when they start the process of making music themselves a multitude of positive outcomes ensue.

  4. #14


    Thanks again, everyone, for continuing to share your thoughts and experiences.

    It sounds like the most important thing is continuing to play and share music with my baby and include her as she becomes interested and able. It also sounds like allowing her to get her hands on my instruments could be helpful but having something solely for her wouldn't have much value at this point. With that in mind I may get a 'knock around' uke of some kind.

  5. #15
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    Mar 2014
    Ames, Iowa


    I let my grand kids sit on my lap while I play them sometimes. I let them strum. I keep them out of reach otherwise. Easy enough to do. I did let my three year old grand daughter get her hands on one unsupervised with almost disasterous results. I just wrote about it in another thread. For her birthday I bought her a Dolphin of her own. It appears to me that the excitement of having her very own ukulele lasted a couple of days. Right now it is sitting in a corner of her bedroom with one broken string waiting for her to step on it. I do not believe that small children will have a natural instinct to make music if given a ukulele.
    Last edited by Rllink; 07-02-2020 at 08:51 AM.
    I don't want to live in a world that is linear.

    I just want everyone to understand that I am not a ukulele expert, even though it may look at times like I'm pretending to be.

  6. #16
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    Jul 2019
    Ellisville, MO


    I bought my 2 year old a cheap bugsgear off Amazon. He sort of gets it but it's more just for him to have his own thing. If he wants to grab one of mine I remind him he has his own and he runs to grab it.

    Hoping to teach him one day, brushing up on some theory to help.

  7. #17


    I got my oldest a ukulele when she was fairly young, for the reason already mentioned above, that when she wanted to play one of my instruments I could tell her to go and get hers. She was fine with that arrangement. Later on her younger brother got in on that deal too, and just the other day my wife took the picture below of our youngest daughter accompanying me on it as well.

    Between the three kids and all of their friends who have a go on it now and then, I’d say it’s been a very appreciated “toy” around here and one of the very few that still gets used several years later.


  8. #18
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    Apr 2017


    Quote Originally Posted by longtortoise View Post
    Hello all. I have a five month old baby girl that is very interested in my guitars and ukulele. She loves hearing me play them and very much wants to grab them and interact with them. I'm not worried about immediate damage, as she is so small and I can easily control her interactions, but I was wondering when would be the right time to get a cheap, durable uke for her to interact with more independently (EDIT: meaning more 'hands on', not left alone)?

    I understand kids can't truly start learning to play until 3-6 years old but I think there could be some value in occasionally letting her grab, pluck, spit up on, etc. a 'knock around' uke, like a Makala Dolphin or Flight TUS35.

    What do you think? Should instruments be only for 'looking' and not 'touching' for some time, or is there value in allowing her to get her hands on an instrument?
    As a child I grow up with a Piano in the house but never learnt to play it. It was played regularly by my Mother who would bang out a tune or two on it but she never showed me how to play it. Having said that she’d have put me through paid for lessons but that structure and family expense turned me off. So, the point I make here, is that once the child is old enough (or should that be developed enough) to learn then a casual introduction might be the way forward.

    In my teens I learnt to play other instruments through free tuition at school. I was at the right stage for me, the tuition was free and so were the instruments and the guy giving the tuition was the right teacher for me; with that mix I made good progress and established a foundation of skills that has served me well.

    Fast forward to life as a parent. My wife plays Piano and our own children grew up with one. They can all play but we put them through lessons, none of them wanted to put the effort in to learn and our society has an elitist attitude such that if you aren’t a perfect player then you shouldn’t bother - that discourages learners. So the point here is that not all children have much interest in playing (there’s lots going on in their Worlds already and plenty of other interesting stuff to do instead) and the skill of playing needs to be appropriately supported, nurtured and encouraged - which is no small task.

    Fast forward again and the next generation has started to arrive. This generation are not in my regular care but I take an interest. I now see music or rather musical accomplishment as a journey with many different stopping off points and alternative routes forward. Looking in terms of education you’d need to be an early years music teacher to give a really useful answer as to what’s best but I observe that children learn in a progressive way building on earlier knowledge and experiences. I wouldn’t give a Uke to a small child but rather something percussive instead which they can rattle and band to their hearts content. Maybe later something percussive that has different pitches and later again something on which a scale and simple tunes can be played.

    At what stage is a child ready to attempt to play (note that I say play rather than play with) a Uke? Well hand control, strength and coordination have a part to play in that decision as does intellect and natural talent. There are always exceptions to every ‘rule’ but just for now let’s be guided by what happens in Primary Schools. Following that lead my best guess is sometime beyond seven and before eleven, so Junior School age (as would be here in the U.K.). So what I’m saying here is before a curtain age or developmental stage a Uke is a toy rather than an instrument, of course the toy might eventually make the transition but I suspect that there are more age appropriate things for little ones to have as they learn and play.
    Last edited by Graham Greenbag; 07-12-2020 at 05:54 AM.

  9. #19
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    Jul 2017


    I've always had a travel uke around for me, so would let my son play it whenever he showed interest and he loved to strum and pluck on it. I think it was more about the sound for him than the feel. You could buy a toy one she can knock around, but it doesn't have the musical qualities. I support either buying one that is durable enough to handle it (Outdoor or Enya) that would double as a travel uke for you, or cheap enough you don't cry if it breaks (Makala).
    Last edited by Anthroterra; 07-16-2020 at 03:27 PM.

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  10. #20
    Join Date
    Jan 2016
    Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, USA


    Quote Originally Posted by Jerryc41 View Post
    It's seems that many of the great players started when they were just 5.
    Since I started the ukulele when I was 68, that may explain my lack of greatness!


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