Firstly, I am extremely relieved and glad that things worked out for both parties involved in this unfortunate situation. I feel badly this incident came to pass, and I can understand this situation from both the perspective of the buyer and the seller (I have been on both sides of this coin before, and neither side is fun place to find oneself).
Secondly, personally, I don’t necessarily believe in the condition of ‘perfect.’ Additionally, what is ‘perfect’ in the eyes of one person may not be the case in the eyes of another. Who is right, then, in this situation? It is difficult to know. It really is subjective and, therefore, again, difficult to ascertain.
In this particular situation, however, I realize and agree that a detached bridge definitively would render an instrument ‘imperfect’ - yet, I’d like to think that the seller was unaware that there was such an issue with the bridge, and that s/he did try to sell, in good faith, an instrument s/he believed to be in proper order for a sale as described.
Sometimes, things can be wrong with our instruments and we’re not always aware this is the case unless it’s glaringly obvious. It may sound ridiculous to say that, but it can and does happen. Oversights, unfortunately, do happen, even when purchasing a ‘new’ instrument as well as ‘pre-loved’ instruments. This cycles back to my original point of perfection: as humans, we are not perfect beings; we make mistakes. Whether it’s in creating/building an instrument, or an oversight that we were not aware in selling an instrument, ‘it’ happens. That’s just life.
I’d like to truly believe that both sellers and buyers on the UU Marketplace are trying to do right by one another. I like to believe that no one here is trying to pull a ‘fast one’ over on another member. Having been on the UU Forum since 2012, I know that people don’t get away with that sort of behavior here. Sooner or later, the cards are dealt and things are brought out into the light. In these cases, from my personal experience and perspective, all that this leads to is unrest on the forum; it then creates an environment in which members, buyers and sellers alike, become a bit (or more) skeptical of conducting transactions here. With time, tho, things do settle down and blow over. Needless to say, it is still unfortunate when a transaction, as the OP describes, comes to fruition. Again, I am just glad that both parties came to an amicable agreement and arrangement. That’s what matters most.