Chris Tarman
Well-known member
Hoping that everything works out for you Chris. In the end it will, which ever way it goes.
As someone who has gone through what you are going through now, as dificult as it may seem, remember to always stay positive. My marriage of 19 years ended 4 1/2 years ago. It was not what I wanted. There was a third party involved, not on my side. We went through the charade of counseling, but unless both parties really want to try to repair the marriage, it is a waste of time.
I hope that you and your wife can get past whatever hurdles you may face. But if not, there is always light at the end of the tunnel. For me it was a life full of new challenges and opportunities. One of which was learning how to play the ukulele.
dk, you pretty much hit the nail on the head. But we both seem to want to work things out. The counseling has just started (our second session today), and after the first session last week the counselor suggested that I might want to see a different counselor on my own because of what had happened. So I am having my second "solo" counseling session tomorrow after work. Counseling is all really new to me, although I've known plenty of people who've had good luck with various forms, including some family members. So I know it CAN work, if both parties are willing to go to the effort. So far, so good.