Chris Tarman
Well-known member
I have had the worst eight days of my life. I don't want to go into a lot of detail, but my wife dropped a big bombshell on me last Sunday evening. We're working on things, and I feel GENERALLY optimistic, but there are moments (lots of them) of abject despair and sadness.
I don't want to sound pathetic, or to BE pathetic. But if any of you believe in such things (and judging from things I've seen here, a LOT of you do), I could use some good thoughts, prayers, Aloha Spirit or whatever you can offer.
I've barely touched my ukes in the past week, and I haven't been on much. I don't have a lot of friends in my town. I don't like most of my coworkers very much. I did tell my closest local friend what was going on the night I heard about it. He's the drummer I've played with on and off for 14 years. He was helpful, as were a couple of my coworkers. It's not the kind of thing I feel like telling my family about, at least not just yet.
It was BIG, and it put a big obstacle in what was already a marriage in trouble (although I guess I didn't really realize how MUCH trouble). We've taken some good first steps toward healing and fixing things. I know there is a way past the obstacle, but at the moment I can't see quite how to get around it. I know that I want to. I hope she wants to as much as I do.
Thank you all for your friendship and support. I can honestly say that, even though I've only met a few of you in real-life, I count a LOT of you as friends. I really do love this place.
Chris
I don't want to sound pathetic, or to BE pathetic. But if any of you believe in such things (and judging from things I've seen here, a LOT of you do), I could use some good thoughts, prayers, Aloha Spirit or whatever you can offer.
I've barely touched my ukes in the past week, and I haven't been on much. I don't have a lot of friends in my town. I don't like most of my coworkers very much. I did tell my closest local friend what was going on the night I heard about it. He's the drummer I've played with on and off for 14 years. He was helpful, as were a couple of my coworkers. It's not the kind of thing I feel like telling my family about, at least not just yet.
It was BIG, and it put a big obstacle in what was already a marriage in trouble (although I guess I didn't really realize how MUCH trouble). We've taken some good first steps toward healing and fixing things. I know there is a way past the obstacle, but at the moment I can't see quite how to get around it. I know that I want to. I hope she wants to as much as I do.
Thank you all for your friendship and support. I can honestly say that, even though I've only met a few of you in real-life, I count a LOT of you as friends. I really do love this place.
Chris