Disrespect...
This is a term thrown around by people that are basically just trying to cloud an issue they either don't fully understand, or are trying to take blame off themselves. Either way, I see that term used quite frequently here, especially when I have to admonish the inmates of something.
Example: on weeknights, time to be in their rooms is 11:30pm. They all know this. Come 12:01am count, sometimes I have to tell several to go to their rooms. Most of the time, they comply quickly. Every once in a while, one will just stand around and keep looking at the TV, or just wander around, not in any hurry to get anywhere. So, I dial it up a notch, and tell him that I don't like repeating myself, to get moving, now. Some of these guys, especially the younger ones, will say, "Man, you can't disrespect me like that! I'm a man, and you're gonna treat me like one!" Loud enough, of course so that everyone can hear. I tell whoever it is, to come to my office after count is over.
He comes to my office. He usually repeats his disrespect line before I even start speaking. My answer to that is, "If you act like a man, I have no problem treating you like one. You know what time you are supposed to be in your room, and a half-hour later you are still out. When we come in to count, I ask you guys to head to your room, but you either ignore me, or slow walk me. Who's disrespecting who?"
Not totally sure this completely applies to what went on with that thread, but I saw where folks had NO idea why it was moved in the first place, and they threw out the 'disrespect' garbage. That's just a pet peeve for me in my profession.