We have been taking lessons for almost a year now, and I have enjoyed documenting this adventure. It is a nice record or diary of how we learned ukulele that I have referred to from time to time, and I have appreciated the feedback and encouragement from UUers. However, I think this thread has pretty much run its course and it is time to wrap it up.
Let me start with a sort of logistic summary. Although our lessons are scheduled weekly, we have taken 29 lessons in the first 44 weeks of 2023, so we are averaging about 3 one hour lessons per month. My wife and I have taken all of our lessons together, and we have taken vast majority of our lessons via FaceTime, even though our current teacher is relatively local. (This is Los Angeles so a 45-50 minute drive is still considered local.) We had about five lessons from our first teacher, and then starting at the beginning of 2023 we started taking lessons with Victoria, aka Jordan.
We are both very pleased with our progress, and continue to enjoy both our lessons and playing ukuleles together. At the beginning of our lessons, we were pretty much in the boat trying to learn a few basic chords and strumming patterns. Both of us already had some musical experience and read music, but it did not take long before we realized that I had a significant advantage having played a string instrument before (violin), while my wife primarily played piano. I also studied violin more seriously and for a considerably longer time than my wife studied piano. She stopped taking lessons some time around eighth or ninth grade, and I continued to take lessons and play in ensembles into my thirties. I had no experience with chords or a fretted instrument, but I had more of a sense of where fingers went, and I had more strength, dexterity, and experience isolating motions of the fingers on my left hand.
Our progress has also been different because we have different goals. Chris wanted to learn enough chords and gain enough facility with the instrument so she could play the songs she wanted to play, and her approach has been singing the melody and playing chords. She wanted to be able to play what she wanted to play, rather than sticking to the three and four chord song books. I approached the ukulele rather differently. I too wanted to learn the chords and chord progressions so that we could play and sing together. However, I also wanted to develop ukulele technique, though I had little idea what that meant when I started. I have been learning to play chord melody and classical pieces . I spend considerably more time practicing individually, and I work on different kinds of things in my individual practice.
We are often studying the same pieces though we may play them in different versions, and we are often working on exactly the same thing. We practice together regularly, we enjoy playing together, and the joint lessons continue to work well for us. Victoria is able to identify what we need individually and in order to better play together. While we are on somewhat different paths, ukulele is still a very enjoyable and satisfying joint activity. Chris has a lovely voice and can both sing in tune and sing harmony. I also think she has a better ear for harmony and chord progressions. I tend to be stronger in playing melody and chord/melody and I have a better ear for intonation and fine gradations of pitch. I have more left hand technique and a wider vocabulary of closed and barre chords. Our right hand technique is more similar. I think she has a wonderful instinct for phrasing that comes from her singing ability.
I don't want to over estimate our capabilities, but we don't feel like we are just beginners anymore. To a certain degree and with some effort, we can learn to play what we want to play and make it sound musical. I don't think we could have gotten here without a first rate teacher. I have seen brilliant teaching done in groups and ensembles, so it is not only a matter of one-on-one lessons. However, I do believe that the smaller the group, the more the teacher can focus on the individual needs of the student.