Graham Greenbag
Well-known member
That’s an interesting insight and I can see that it might well be the case here. As for the OP, my thoughts are in an earlier post; I wish him well and think that many of us have made the same error, it‘s easily done.People often believe they want feedback when they really wish for validation.
As too often is the case in this forum your reaction is completely unnecessary and unwarranted. You posted a suggestion and asked "what da ya think?" That is a question that seeks others view's.
Why bother to ask if you don't want them? Why complain people have given their views when it was you who asked for them? You need to have a word with yourself.
I can see why someone would say that, that’s a pity really and one in multiple ways. I’ve not been on the receiving end of the OP’s kindness and generosity to others but many folk have so for me it’s a case of looking at the wider picture. At one time we used to have more of a spirit of Aloha here ("love, compassion, sympathy, kindness"), it’s what sets UU apart from other places and a bit more Aloha towards others - from us all - would be a move in the right direction.
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